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Wedding Day Dilemma: Choosing Between First Look and Traditional Aisle Walk

May 22, 2024
Featured  ·  Photography  ·  Wedding

First Look vs. Traditional Walk Down the Aisle: How to Choose the Best Option for Your Wedding Day

Hey there, friend! Planning your wedding day is filled with so many exciting choices, but one of the big decisions you’ll face is whether to do a First Look or stick with the Traditional Walk Down the Aisle. Both options have their own unique charm, so let’s dive into the pros and cons of each to help you decide which one feels right for your big day.

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The First Look

A First Look gives you and your partner a private, intimate moment together before the ceremony. It’s a chance to connect and share your excitement without a crowd. Many couples find that seeing each other beforehand helps to ease those pre-ceremony jitters, making you feel more relaxed and present during the actual ceremony. Plus, it allows for more time to capture those beautiful couple portraits, giving you more photo variety and reducing the need to squeeze all your photos in after the ceremony. Another great advantage is that you’ll have more time to enjoy your cocktail hour and mingle with guests, since many of the photos are already done.

However, if you’re a stickler for tradition, a First Look might not feel quite right for you. Additionally, coordinating a First Look requires a bit more planning, such as making sure you’re ready earlier in the day.

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Helicopter elopement at the top of the mountain peeks over the fraser valley. Helicopter flight with Sky helicopters. wedding at the lodge on harrison with kate paterson photography
Helicopter elopement at the top of the mountain peeks over the fraser valley. Helicopter flight with Sky helicopters. wedding at the lodge on harrison with kate paterson photography

The Traditional Walk Down the Aisle

There’s something incredibly special about that moment when you see each other for the first time at the end of the aisle. The build-up can make the moment even more emotional. For many couples, following this time-honored tradition feels important and meaningful. Your guests also get to witness that unforgettable first look between you and your partner, adding to the overall emotional experience of the ceremony.

On the downside, not seeing each other before the ceremony can sometimes heighten nerves and anxiety. Additionally, post-ceremony photo sessions can be rushed, cutting into your time to enjoy the reception with your guests.


Tips to Help You Decide

When making this decision, reflect on your personalities. Are you both traditional at heart, or do you prefer creating new, unique experiences? Consider what feels most authentic to you as a couple. Think about your timeline as well. A First Look can make the day flow more smoothly, but if you love the idea of tradition and surprise, adjusting your timeline to allow for more photo time after the ceremony could work too. Discuss your nerves—if one or both of you tends to get nervous, a First Look might help you feel calmer and more connected. Lastly, consider your venue. Some venues have beautiful spots for a private First Look, while others might make the traditional aisle reveal more breathtaking.

Whatever you decide, remember that your wedding day is about celebrating your love in a way that feels right for you. Whether you choose a First Look or the Traditional Walk Down the Aisle, the most important thing is that it reflects your unique bond and the joy of starting your life together.

Happy planning, and whatever you choose, it’s going to be an unforgettable moment!


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The ceremony is done, the joy is overflowing… an The ceremony is done, the joy is overflowing… and then it’s your aisle exit. This moment is pure magic—but have you thought about how you’ll move through it?

Here are 3 simple ways to make it your own:

💫 The Kiss, Dip, or Twirl – Some couples share a sweet kiss, others dip or twirl partway down the aisle. It’s spontaneous joy with just enough intention to make it photo-ready.

🌸 Add Some Movement – Petal tosses, confetti, or bubbles from your guests bring color, playfulness, and a feeling of celebration. They also look stunning in photos.

🫶 Just Be You – Laugh, cry, high-five, skip, or simply walk hand in hand. You don’t have to plan every step—just trust the joy of the moment and I’ll take care of capturing the magic.

Your aisle exit is one of the happiest little chapters of your wedding day. Let’s make it feel as joyful as it truly is.

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From the first look to the last dance, every momen From the first look to the last dance, every moment of your big day is filled with emotion and beauty.

Capturing these moments means creating memories that will be treasured for generations. Whether it’s the nervous excitement as you get ready, the tender moment when you see each other for the first time, or the joyous celebration with family and friends, each moment is a precious piece of your love story.

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